thewolfawaits:

Dominance is not writing a post that appeals to the neediness of naive little girls, pulling their little heart strings.

Dominance is not finding a weak, overly dependent girl, and finding her weakness and feeling “strong” just because you can break her and hurt her and mind fuck her. You weak ass bitch doms who do this are beyond fucking pathetic.  You are a WEAK fucked up little boy.

Dominance is not just the emotional vanilla things that OF COURSE you should have in any real relationship.

Dominance is not just being a decent human being that cares and loves for a girl. Seriously that is just the bare minimum of not being a fucking ass hole.

Dominance is not dumping your fucking emotional baggage on a weak girl and fucking her over.

Dominance is having your shit together.

Dominance is controlling the fucking beast within you, especially your temper.

Dominance is having a fucking job (remembering an @owlmansdead anon months ago who was a “dom” but sat his ass at home all day and didn’t try to find a job)

Dominance is finding a strong, independent submissive that even though you may be striving to be an awesome man, she gives you her submission and it is a gift you could never truly “earn”

Dominance is being a leader that always learns how to be a better leader and a better man.

Dominance is teaching your submissive life lessons.

Dominance is gently (and not so gently at times) reminding a submissive of your strength when she tests her boundaries.

Dominance is respecting a woman that allows you to do whatever is inside you that you need to do to her.

Dominance is controlled power that doesn’t go to your head and feed your ego at the expense of another’s suffering.

Dominance is making her a better person than she already is, better off for knowing you and being with you, not worse.

Dominance is a look that says 10,000 words.

Dominance.  You either have it or you don’t.  Playing like you have it when you don’t makes you look like a total fucking idiot.

Wolf out.

Rant over.

@thewolfawaits …well said thank you. I have seen this modelled in person and it has truly helped me weed out the pretenders and the assholes. This is not a roleplay for me. Don’t think I want you to play a part. I want to please and break down those boundaries. But with negotiation and respect and because I trust you and want to please you. Not because you take it before I am ready to give.