polyreassurance:

Sometimes you’re not going to be your partner’s main priority. Sometimes someone or something else will be getting all of their attention for a while. That’s okay. They still love you. They still think about you. Nothing is going to change that

Needed this reminder. Who would have thought that being poly would still mean I am alone for the holidays? The worst. 

And sometimes your soulmate is somebody you don’t have sex with. Or someone who is distant but never far from your heart. Or maybe you have more than one soulmate because life and love are meant to be shared, not conscripted to a definition, or a box, or a societal norm.