exoticeva:

suitesisterkink:

She almost didn’t recognize the girl in the mirror. The one with the pouty lips and starry eyes. The flushed cheeks and sultry gaze. The one who begged and pleaded with no hint of inhibition.

Gone was the strait-laced good girl. He had turned her into something, someone else.

No. That wasn’t quite right. He had unearthed something that had always been inside her.

His large hands imparted pain and pleasure with equal ease.

His clever mouth breathed fire on her skin and made her body do his bidding.

With stern commands and gentle endearments his voice became her lodestone.

On her knees in front of him she was all heat and sensation. Drowning in his demands, his scent, his pleasure, she was free.

A sultry creature reborn in the image of his wants, because he understood her needs.
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So happy to see a post from you friend !! And as always AMAZING!! Such lovely words …and the perfect picture!! You are beyond wonderful!! Thank you for coming back and keeping today full of sexy!!!

Thank YOU for keeping the detour alive. And for the very kind words. xoxo

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Defining Terms – Bottom vs Submissive

thegirlinthewoman:

For SCC Writing

I’m writing this off the cuff for a change, so y’all (yeah, I was raised in the south… embrace the bacon and gravy) bear with me. Oh, and maybe I’ve had a cocktail… WHAT?!?

Bottom – as I discussed in another article I wrote, a bottom is someone who only wants to give up control (to whatever degree) during play/sexually charged situations. She is merely looking for a release. There’s nothing wrong with that, to be clear (let’s make a drinking game of this… leaf through my writings and every time you see ‘to be clear’, drink. Trust me, you may be sorry). I respect the needs, whatever they are, of the individual.

Submissive – a submissive is one who seeks/needs a power exchange (again, to varying degrees) beyond the bedroom, and for her it is NOT a ‘release’ from her usual responsibilities, it is a more elemental need to please her partner. She thrives under the direction/guidance of the (for lack of a better term) captain of the ship. It isn’t about escape from her day to day grind, it is about the bone-deep peace she gains from bringing happiness to her partner. She doesn’t resent him saying, “Text me when you finish cleaning the bedroom,”… she is delighted when she CAN.

A bottom is no less a valuable human being than a submissive. The same respect should be afforded to both. But they are different creatures. Me? I’m submissive. I want structure and discipline and love and making my partner proud.

But that’s just me.