pleasurewhore:

Things that turn me on:

• Consistency
• Honesty
• Communication
• Integrity
• Effort
• Sincerity

Things I don’t care about:

• What he looks like in a suit
• What kind of car he drives
• How flat his abs are
• What he looks like when he rolls out of bed
• How many times he can cum in one night

I’m a submissive, not just in the bedroom, but someone who feels drawn to service, and to the structure submission provides. I love sex as much as the next person… bondage, beatings, hot bodies, cumming until my body shakes, the whole deal… but those things aren’t what satisfies that need inside me.

Knowing what’s expected, feeling like the next step is clear, hearing his praise when I’ve pleased him, those are the things that matter to me. They are the little things that add up to something greater.

When I think about the things that make my Dominant so wonderful, they all come down to character. Sure, I think he’s sexy as hell, and his messy just-out-of-bed hair is pretty adorable too. But the steadiness of his character is what draws me to him. It’s what makes me love him.

To reduce attraction and to the physical is to transplant a tree without the roots. Beautiful for a short while, but quickly reduced to nothing more than firewood.