theimperfetc:

littlemissbratty:

Newsflash. I actually don’t find super confident people cute.

You’re cute if you’re a nice person, that’s what it boils down to.

Confidence can be hot, but super confident can come off as arrogant in my experience.

Although this is just my opinion of course.

There’s always exceptions to the rules too. I’m an arrogant SOB and she loves me. I think Canadian gets me a pass.

Nah…its your ass that gets you the pass. Your actual ass, not the fact that you can be one. 😜

theimperfetc:

Anon, poly is a real thing. But I firmly believe you are or you aren’t. You can’t “learn” it, for lack of a better word. Or perhaps you learn it during your upbringing before it’s time to have a relationship. Either you see that having one in your heart doesn’t take up all the love you are capable of, or you believe that one person is meant for only one other person.

If you can’t see it, you aren’t. And it will be hard to understand those that are. If you are, you probably won’t know it until you find two to love at once.

I believe love is infinite. You can love as many as you can find hours in the day to do so. Do what feels true to yourself.

absalomsbane:

“I am afraid. Of what? Life without having lived, chiefly.”

— Sylvia Plath, from The Unabridged Journals Of Sylvia Plath

(via adrasteiax)

Yes!

mypretty-floral-bonnet:

i see all these posts around here that are like “date someone who…” and all that’s fine and good but like i feel like they focus on cutesy stuff and leave some really important stuff out. so like yes, date someone who you can watch netflix with and pet dogs with and make waffles with but also 

• date someone who will call you out on your shit
• date someone who thinks the sun shines out of your ass, but also knows you’re not perfect and will offer the support you need to change and grow
• date someone who doesn’t passively accept your flaws, but recognizes them and helps you deal with them
• date someone who you can disagree with but still love and care for all the same
• date someone who can understand where you’re coming from and help you through your rough times
• date someone who won’t enable your negative, self-destructive habits and tendencies
• date someone who doesn’t think “you’re perfect don’t ever change” but rather “i love you and will help and support you in whatever changes you need to make”
• date someone who sees you not as a perfect lover but as a human being and who wants to be with you even though they can see all your faults

basically date someone who’s going to be with you, not just worship you. and more importantly, be this person for your SO. do not put them on a pedestal and call it love.

thegingerpowers:

“Speak your mind. Otherwise no one will know what you think.”

—

Ginger