beautyandherbeasts:

being a submissive has made me stronger.

i have learned my limits & how to advocate to make sure they are respected.

i have learned when to surrender my control & when to stand up for my rights.

i have learned when to push myself & when to be comfortable in my limitations.

i have learned to be accountable for my actions, my screw ups, my mistakes & see them as part of the learning process of getting to know myself.

i have learned that being a submissive means being strong enough to give up everything to someone else, but more importantly,

being strong enough to learn when that person deserves it & when they don’t.

This. Especially the part about recognizing someone worthy of it.