how my orgasms work:
Him: *touches my clit for like 4 seconds*
me: *screaming. bucking. legs shaking. flooding the bed*
——
me by myself: *vibrator on clit- highest setting, looking at good porn, thinking about good sexy times,*
…nothin…
*starts slapping myself and saying mean things. punches myself. grinds against vibrator. says more mean things.*
*finally eek out a passable orgasm.*
Pretty much.
Sir's submissive 