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prostatorgasmsgirl:

What is Submission

Submission is a surrender and a trust.

Not a giving up of who or what you are, not a forfeiting of your mind or thoughts.

It’s a belief and trust that the person who you have submitted to wants the best for you and of you.

A realization that there is nothing but goodness and support given by that person.

It’s a relinquishing of the need to control everything and instead be able to be at peace.

It’s a comfort in knowing that when you need that person that they will be there and put you first, regardless of the cost to themselves.

It’s a trust that if you begin to doubt yourself or fall into self destructive thoughts that they will carry you time and time again.

It is a safety that this person will put you first not sometimes not when it is easy but all the time.

It is allowing someone else to hold a mirror to ourselves and see nothing but goodness.

It is an accountability for our words, actions and thoughts.

It is a surrender of our own desires, trusting that someone else accepts and understands what we need better than we do ourselves.

It is that feeling of HOME of safety and clarity of love that only that other person can give us. It’s calm and peaceful.

It is a commitment to that person above, beyond and before everyone and anything else.

Add: it’s a handing over of the key to ourselves and knowing that it will be treasured for what it is.

That’s what Submission is.

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You have taught me so much in this past year, about myself, about what real love looks like, and what true respect is, about pushing boundaries and chasing dreams, about how to be open to even the things that scare me. You are unfailingly supportive. Incredibly thoughtful and patient. You always seem to know just the right thing to say to make me smile. You are the best part of every day. I am blessed to have You in my life. I am proud to be Yours. Happy birthday Sir 💋💋💋 @pr3tty-things